Rachel Greenwald

is the New York Times bestselling author of two books: “Find a Husband After 35: Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School” and “Have Him At Hello: Confessions From 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love… or Never Call Back”.*  Her books were published by Random House and have been translated into 16 languages worldwide.

Rachel Greenwald is a renowned matchmaker for single men and women across the United States. She has appeared as a relationship expert on hundreds of TV and radio shows, including CNN, NBC’s The Today Show, ABC’s Nightline, CBS’s The Early Show, The Steve Harvey Show, and NPR. She has been featured in publications such as The New York Times, Fortune, The New Yorker, and “O” The Oprah Magazine. Rachel is responsible for over 850 marriages, which includes both her private matchmaking clients as well as readers of her books who have sent Rachel their wedding photos since 2003 after her advice helped them find their mate.

Rachel is passionate about teaching, speaking and consulting. She has been a speaker, guest lecturer and retreat leader for hundreds of corporate and specialty events, workshops, and classrooms for over 20 years. Venues have included Aspen Ideas Fest, Google, Y-Combinator, Morgan Stanley, Harvard Business School, Stanford University, Estée Lauder Companies, YPO Forums,​ Harvard Alumni Entrepreneurs Network, 92nd Street Y, high end resorts, corporate retreats, etc. Her focus is on creating authentic connections by leveraging proven dating tactics to be more successful in one’s professional life. Topics include: enhancing first impressions and communication skills, personal branding, unique networking tactics, building more effective relationships and trust with colleagues/clients/investors, Zoom meeting improvement tips, deepening connections for virtual teams, and many other customized subjects.

Rachel starred in NBC’s Reality TV dating show “The Match Off!”, and also starred in a Reality TV dating show in London. Rachel blogs for the Huffington Post, she has written relationship advice for Match.com, eHarmony, JDate, and Yahoo! Personals, and she was the “Love Over 40” online advice columnist for More Magazine. Rachel is also a relationship expert on YourTango and GenConnect. She works privately with clients nationwide as a Matchmaker and Dating Coach, and teaches training workshops to people who want to start careers in the love industry.

Rachel has an M.B.A. degree from Harvard Business School, as well as a B.A. degree in psychology from Wellesley College and a Ed.M. degree from Harvard Graduate School of Education. She has been appointed as an Executive Fellow at Harvard Business School (2020-21). Rachel is based in Denver, CO, with her husband of 28 years and their three grown children.

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*Note: The book title “Have Him At Hello” is the paperback edition of the original title “Why He Didn’t Call You Back”.

Oprah Magazine calls Rachel: “My kind of gutsy girl! After two weeks of trying Rachel’s strategies, I am now juggling so many suitors that I’ve started a man-agement diary.”

Private Consulting

Rachel offers private consultations for men and women.

Destination Retreats

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Matchmaker Training

Rachel offers professional career training for the dating industry


Rachel is a NY Times bestselling author of two dating books